Do Women buy Lingerie for Self Esteem or Men?

After reading the Mating Game by Allan Pease it really opened my eyes to how different Men on Women really are. Women buy underwear to feel empowered and elegant etc but men link Lingerie with sex every time. I have discussed this with my girlfriends and they feel the same way that men just don’t get it. However when I speak to my male friends they laugh at me saying “come on Laura you know underwear is always for a man’s benefit”. Now I know this is false as I have been single for 5 years and I wear matching underwear every day like the pictures shown because of how it makes me feel. It makes me feel glamorous, elegant and sometimes if I’m in a fun mood then bubblegum colours like below can really make me feel good. I believe that when you wear outer garments it’s there for the whole world to judge but your underwear can only be judged by you and you can be as naughty or Vanilla as you like and no-one would know.

I would love to know any thoughts on this so please comment.


Freya – Jolie Balcony Bra in Bubblegum


I.D. Sarrieri spring summer 20113


Marilyn Monroe collection by Great  Expectations

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